Real connection changes everything.
The story
When I moved back to Bakersfield at 29, I quickly realized how challenging it was to make new friends as an adult. Between busy schedules, careers, and the routines of everyday life, creating genuine connections felt almost impossible.
That’s why I started Bakersfield Besties—a community built to bring women together, spark authentic friendships, and make Bakersfield feel a little more like home. My vision is simple: create a space where women can connect over coffee, brunch, dinners, and events that go beyond small talk, turning strangers into true friends.
Bakersfield Besties is here for the women who crave connection, laughter, and belonging. Whether you’re new to town or a longtime local, this is your invitation to show up as you are and find your people.
Authentic Friendships. Real Impact.
There’s something powerful about surrounding yourself with women who truly get you. Authentic friendships don’t just fill your social calendar—they change your life. They bring joy on the hard days, encouragement when you need it most, and celebration in every win, big or small. At Bakersfield Besties, we believe friendship is the foundation of community, and when women come together with open hearts, everything feels possible.
“Friendship isn’t a big thing, it’s a million little things.”
– Becca Anderson